Vent Session #2

DATING…

This one is for the guys I guess…….but I do believe many girls will agree with me!

Okay guys, let me get one thing straight. If you like a girl, TELL HER. She might just like you back.

Now, I haven’t dealt with the ¨dating market¨ for about 7 months. However, now it seems all of my friends think I am a genius about relationships and they want me to hook them up with really good guys. In order to do that I have had to revive my old ¨sources¨ on guys and girls, get back onto the twitter drama, the Facebook relationship statuses, and the rumors. I have found that my sources are the best I’ve got but it never hurts to see who may or may not like who. Dating is fun, heck yeah. And it is something that you experiment with. Most people don’t know what they like right off the bat, so you have to date around (not sleep around people) to find out what you like and what you don’t like. There is nothing wrong with dating around! That is actually kind of the point…

I have found that the girls (at least in my high school) are much more open about what they like and what they don’t. Most girls will tell their friends the juicy stuff like who they think is cute, funny, smart, or ugly, immature, and dumb. Guys, I really don’t know full details (I am obviously not a guy) but from my experiences with my boyfriend and the things he has told me and his friends’situations I think I have got the gist. Guys aren’t afraid to say if a girls hot, or even ugly. I can learn that just by walking with guys in the mall. (bad idea people) They don’t really tell a lot of people if they have a crush on a girl or if they want to date. Guys seem to hide those feelings a lot better than girls. But seriously guys? If you have a crush on a girl TELL HER. Girls go crazy over that stuff. Honestly you can’t say that hearing someone has a crush on you doesn’t make you feel good, confident, and perhaps slighty attracted to that person. That is normal! You never know until you try.

Guys if you really want to impress a girl, hit up her social media or just simply smile at her in the hallways. Girls love it when guys flirt. You aren’t a good flirt? Relax, it is easy and comes naturally. You might even be surprised at how many normal, everyday things could be counted as flirting. Guys I believe it is actually kind of adorable when a guy is a bad flirt or gets nervous around me. It shows you are trying, and you are at least attempting and putting yourself out there. Girls love that! A good guy is hard to find these days!

So don’t be afraid to express your feelings! (Unless she/he is taken, then backkk offfff) But just put yourself out there. Dating is an up and down experience, you can’t really help that. A heartbreak could happen but so could love! You never know unless you ask. Don’t be afraid to date around, that is what dating is all about! Get yourself out there ad find out what characteristics you like and what you don’t. Go Date! It is good for you!

P.S. Thanks for putting up with my venting! 🙂

P.S.S. Any advice or tips I missed? Or maybe you want to share a dating experience?  Let me know in the comments!

& Happy Dating! 🙂

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2 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. GentlemanSparks
    Feb 21, 2014 @ 20:12:51

    i think with most guys its the fear of rejection, ive noticed i seem to become a girls friend first which by talking and listening to them and showing my manners etc they become attracted to me that way i struggle to date and approach girls i must admit and i feel my break up with my ex (a serious relationship) dented my Armour a little, some guys are more confident and can handle rejection, others cant stand the thought. Great read and lovely to see a females point of view in a positive way, youre right youve sussed men out (kinda ;)) everything you say and have studied about how we think etc is correct 🙂

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  2. ch4r13y6
    Feb 21, 2014 @ 21:17:05

    Wish I had seen this before I asked my girlfriend out coz this would of genuinely helped me to ask her out sooner

    Reply

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